This blog is coming to an end very soon, but I have just a bit more to share from our day…
Warning: this post is extremely long. I asked myself is this too much information, is it even interesting? Then I remembered: it doesn’t matter – this blog is, for me, a memory of this time in our lives. So stuff it – it’s open journal time! 😉
We had our ‘one month anniversary’ last week (haha)! I can’t believe how fast it has gone. Married life is fantastic, and no, it doesn’t really feel different to before. Not different, just… really nice.
When asked if everything went according to plan on the wedding day, my instant reaction is “yes!”, and it pretty much did. We didn’t have a professional videographer, but a couple of friends filmed the ceremony at least, so I’m looking forward to reliving it 😀
Some highlights for me were (apart from the obvious one of getting married):
- Our first look
- Spending the night before together, having breakfast together in the morning, and practicing our dance one last time in our hotel room before starting the day
- My 5 amazing bridesmaids – I can’t even describe how good it felt having them with me all day; their support and friendship is so special
- The men’s buttonholes
- Doing my own makeup, as well as my 5 bridesmaids, and my friend doing our hair
- Getting the coach to and from the venue, so spacious 😉
- Walking down the aisle, seeing everyone there for us gave me a beautiful feeling, and I realised I had nothing to be nervous about
- Our vows, and me not crying during them, I was just too happy (I think I did all my crying during the first look!)
- Having our Mums sign as the marriage witnesses
- The rain stayed away!
- Seeing the reception venue set up exactly how I imagined
- How all the details came together – the plants, potted herbs, bonfavs, thumbprint tree, framed family photos, ceremony blackboard, etc
- The food – OMG the food. I enjoyed every course, I was not a bride who didn’t get to eat!
- The cake of cheese – it was perfectly how we imagined
- I had a basket in the girl’s bathroom full of essentials to use – e.g. hairspray, band-aids, deodorant, chewing gum, etc – a small thing, but some female guests told me it was appreciated
- The 3 speeches before the entrees – a beautiful speech by my husband* (hehe) Paul, which had my Mum in tears, an impromptu speech by the Best Man which was touching and amusing, and a witty and heartfelt speech by my Super MOH Amanda
- Our first dance… I was so nervous, but it was fun – Paul had his smooth moves down pat
- Watching all of our guests having fun, and hearing how much they enjoyed everything
- Our DJ (who also MC’ed) had the dance floor going crazy
- The generosity and love from our family and friends – including everyone travelling to the Hunter Valley for the weekend
- I could go on, and on…!
(*Last weekend we finally saw people the other didn’t know, so it was the first time we introduced each other as “this is my wife, Chanel” and “this is my husband, Paul”. We were giddy.)
So, pretty much the whole day was a highlight. I asked Paul what the highlights were for him, and he said “the whole day”, and added “I wish it didn’t go so fast”. Time flew after the reception started. I was exhausted by 11pm.
These were some not-so-perfect moments, but they really didn’t matter in the end:
- Our flowers were a pale green rather than the white I was expecting, a surprise at first, but I didn’t let it bother me, and apart from that, they were exactly what I asked for – they looked good in the photos anyway!
- At the rehearsal on Friday night we realised one of Super MOH’s shoes was missing the feature rose cluster on the toe – so a wonderful friend drove to the town centre on Saturday morning and was back by 9am with replacement flowers (which were super-glued and sewn on)
- I wish I could have spent more time with everyone at the reception, but that was impossible
- My feet were on fire and I had forgotten to bring my thongs, so barefoot I stubbed my toe at the end of our exit tunnel and it bled (I hate blood, and I’m a massive wuss when it comes to painful things)
- Seating 2 kn0wn-troublemakers together was not a great idea
- This sounds silly, and it is, but my perfectly-imagined timing of the processional song didn’t work – I had been listening to the song for 10 months and planned to walk down the aisle at the climax of the music (seriously), but we couldn’t hear it from where we started, so being too fast, the climax happened as I got to the front 😉
- I probably should have told the Best Man that my Mum was walking down the aisle with the wedding rings, and that she would give them to him at the front – the boys had a panic before we arrived when they realised none of them had or knew about the rings – oops
- Another oops – since we had 3 long dining tables, and no bridal table, I forgot to tell the bridal party where they were all sitting before they were announced and walked in not knowing where to sit!
- I should have practiced our first dance in my dress and shoes – every step I took my heel would get caught in the folds of fabric that was bustled inside the dress, so I danced pretty awfully, trying not to fall!
- One last thing… I wish someone had told me to stop pushing my head back and chin down when I smiled the whole ceremony – my double chins, recorded forever! 😉
I think we were pretty lucky not having anything serious go ‘wrong’.
Our fantastic vendors played a large part in us having such a beautiful day, they all made it so easy. For us, we picked people we clicked with, where after we met them we both said “yep, they’re the one” straight away. If you know anyone planning a Hunter Valley wedding (or even a Sydney wedding, where our photographer Andrew Follan is based), I highly recommend all of them:
- Venue: Muse Restaurant & Cafe
- Photography: Andrew & Sarah of Follan Photography
- Celebrant: Kerryn Tippett of Wed by Kez
- DJ: Simon of XYDJ
- Florist: Alexandra of AW Wedding Bouquets
All images by Follan Photography